Help Center
Answers to the questions we hear most
Find guidance on your account, verification, matching, and billing. If you cannot find what you need here, our team is always happy to help.
Getting Started
Joining the waitlist, creating your profile, and what to expect when we launch.
Verification & Safety
Photo and ID verification, reporting a profile, and staying safe while you search.
Matching & Interests
How values-based matching works, sending interests, and connecting with matches.
Plans & Billing
Subscription tiers, what each plan includes, and managing your membership.
Frequently Asked Questions
How do I join Swayamvarams?
Add your details to the waitlist on our homepage. We will email you as soon as your invitation is ready, along with early access benefits.
How does the matching algorithm work?
We combine your stated partner preferences with a values assessment and a compatibility questionnaire. Your core values carry the most weight, so matches are based on substance rather than surface details.
How are profiles verified?
Members can verify their phone number, government ID, and photos. Verified profiles are marked with a badge so you know you are talking to a real person.
Who can see my photos and contact details?
You control this. Visibility can be set to everyone, premium members, or only people whose interest you have accepted. You can change these settings at any time.
Can I pause or cancel my membership?
Yes. You can manage or cancel your plan from your account settings whenever you like, and your access continues until the end of the paid period.
How do I report a profile?
Use the report option on any profile, or email our safety team. Every report is reviewed by a person, and we act on harassment, fake profiles, and fraud.
Still need help?
Send us a message and our support team will get back to you.